thank your for my husband back!

Since there is a picture of me at the top of bigguns blog i thought i might add my tuppence worth. Just in case you dont recognise the picture - this is wife of biggun! helper to the BS - which i understand means Barbel Society - not all the cr*p that has been going on the past couple of months - not just this latest tirade of rubbish. you are all grown men and women but some - when given the partial anonimity of the computer in any forum - become worse than spoilt children. you should not need a moderator. you should be able to understand that any forum is not your personal playing field. if there is anything to be said of an inflamatory nature it should be private. in particular on the BS forum there is a considerable junior memebership who look to their peers - you "grown ups" for help and inspiration. if they see you calling each other names it shows them its ok for them to do it too. is this what you really want to teach the younger generation? to my mind the way the BS forum is set up is as a family culture. but if you want to make it a club where anything goes i it should have a disclaimer at sign in saying "adult content - some posts may offend!".
on a personal note - thank you for giving me back my husband (i hope i dont regret saying that). more time for his family and his fishing. and no more late nights at work for me printing various bits of paper for you all.
although i possibly do more for the society tnan some members this cannot go on the forum because it is a private forum - and should stay like that. the memebers of the BS, including the committee should protect what they have properly otherwise more people will go the way of others and walk away to leave it to bullies who think it is their own 'playground' with their own rules. and they can sit back and delegate (as i was informed at the conference) at their hearts content till they get a committee of clones to do their bidding. this will never help the BS to move into the 21st century. all it needs is for "like minded people to sit back and do nothing" to ensure the BS stays as it is for ever.